Question? How come if a woman dates a young man they are called “Cougar” and usually makes it sound wrong but when a man dates a young woman it’s ok or rarely classified as sugar daddy? At first when women “non-celebrity” dated/married a young man they were termed cradle robbers? But no body minded as much when older man married a young woman. To me it seems women have and are still being judged more harshly than their male counterparts. I myself am guilty in a small way to feeling some weirdness dating a young man but i feel it’s…

***First published on July 10, 2013 @ PBA*** Long distance relationships, how do people make them work? Well I personally think it takes commitment on both sides in equal measure to make it work, I think if both parties are compromising equally and always listen and look out for one another then it can and will work. Apart from these two people loving each other they have to trust each other too, because a relationship without trust is more often than none compared to a body without the head. I will be honest and say this out right if you…

Hi there and welcome! Most of you who follow my blog Pure By Accident (now A July Dreamer) will know that it previously had the URL of The Myrabev Life blog. I was devastated when I lost all my followers and comments but also my little title (Myrabev) so I decided to start another blog with the same name. Most people who came across my other blog used to ask me what Myrabev stood for and what it meant? The simple explanation is this, I had/have a special someone who means the world to me so I decided to take the…