So we woke up early, dropped off my brother in law at polish church then we went to my church in Cambridge. The service was good but was made even better being in the presence of family and friends.Hey guys and dolls!! Merry Christmas and happy boxing day. Today’s post is short and sweet just wanted to share with my readers how we spent our Christmas day. After church we drove to my parents house where we did a BBQ I know crazy but we didn’t want a turkey. We bbq’d sausages, beef and chicken and had this with salads…

Believing in God or Allah is something that is personal and it’s something I was taught in Sunday school. when the day comes you will answer for it alone NOT with your family or friends or partners no one just you, the good Lord and God. I personally believe that to be the case for the future when The Lord returns but that does not stop me for praying for him and the him here is my partner G. We have been through a lot together and everything I have brought to The Lord in prayer (maybe he has too…

I have been asked so many times, why did you decide to date outside your race? It’s not a question I care for but it’s one I get, a famous quote I am sure your all familiar with “we don’t choose who we fall in love with”. My first true boyfriend was black and I loved him truly he loved me and we thought our search for life partners was over, as they say you never know what life will throw in your way until your experiencing it. Life got in the way, my family moved us to another continent…

Happy Tuesday!!! The worse thing that can happen to someone is to change to suit other people and lose themselves in the process, it happens! I have seen it happen and I am pretty certain you have too. I believe change should be a personal decision not one forced upon someone, because the rebellious consequences would be deadly should it ever happen. I am sure we all have things in our lives that we wish would be different and that’s good because that’s you making the decision not someone else and please do not misquote me if your parents are…

Hello there my lovelies!! Happy Sunday, so today am coming to you with a short, quick and simple post in conjuction with the store Romwe.com. I wanted to share this great offer I was informed of by Romwe.com with you guys, I learnt about Romwe via another blogger (am sorry can’t remember the name) and when I joined an affiliate program (share a sale <– seen on Stacey’s guest post) the first brand/store I searched for was Romwe and when they accepted my application I was over the moon. I just love there stuff and the sales they have on…

So last night I was chatting with my partner on the phone when he mentioned something that caught my attention, I asked him about it and he said he thought I knew! (The nerve on him!!!). I calmly and collected said no I did not know because he never told me about it. After he apologised we continued talking when again I learned something I didn’t know but this time when I asked his response was “I didn’t want to burden you with my problems” I don’t know about you but I got upset because as thoughtful as that is…

My lovelies I am very excited to be writing this post because I am talking about why red wine is good  for you. When I started Uni back in 2009 my good friends Muki and Nara always used to say “babe red wine is good for you, you are a scientist you should know this already”. I used to laugh all the time because though I had heard and red a few articles I always putit down to my friends wanting a good drink which obviously I participated. Now before I get carried away reminiscing about the good old red…

Hello peeps!!! So recently I had a momental relapse in judgement and I lost my self control which in most instances I would brag its one good quality I possess. What had happened was for over 6 months some unhappy people have just been trying to make me as unhappy as them and I usually ignored them people it really didn’t get to me or even scatch the surface. But then one day they decided since talking about me wasn’t doing anything they decided attacking my partner would do it and congratulations to them they found the switch because I…

Hello Peeps!!! It’s Sunday the 8th of December 2013 and my baby blog PurelyByAccident (now A July Dreamer) is 6 months old today and to celebrate this momentous time I have decided to do a giveaway (yaaaay!!!!) on both my blogs to mark this day. When I started blogging I didn’t think I would achieve so much in so little time, I am forever grateful to the people have met and socialized with from the blogsphere. As my bio says I started this blog to pass time when I had moved town and knew no one, this journey as been…

Hello my lovelies!! Happy Saturday, sorry my post is up later today but it’s been an interesting day. Those of you who are friends with me on Facebook will remember my little rant this morning, I am not usually like that but people this time got under my skin and it was relapse in judgement that brought my little rant on, anyway that’s that.  Today my partner took me shopping don’t ask me why I just jumped at the opportunity when he offered. We went around town, experienced our long overdue romance walks then we headed to the retail park…